What are my expectations?

December 11th, 2009 by admin

“Expect your every need to be met. Expect the answer to every problem, expect abundance on every level.” ~ Eileen Caddy

My expectations are those in the quote. I have noticed that always in my life my Universe has taken care of me. Not in a way that I would have sometimes preferred, but always for my best.

Don’t get me wrong, there have be some hard times in my life. Some that I wasn’t sure would end. But they did and I was a better person for the experience. When I look back I can see that if it were not for those experiences, the good and the bad, I would not be who I am today.

I have also been disappointed in relationships because I have expected things of the other person. I now realize that it was conditional love. I loved that person only when they pleased me. It was also a selfish love.

All relationships should be a learning and growing experience. This is true when the relationships last a day or a lifetime. When the relationship no longer serves the ones involved it is time to go their separate ways. This is done with love and respect. True love never dies.

The most important relationship is with self. This is the one that is most neglected and the one that causes all of the problems and pain in our lives. Yes, I said all!

When one is completely at peace with self. There is nothing that can shake a persons life to the point that it is not speedily and positively dealt with.

This is why a consistent and persistent effort at self improvement is the key to growth and cultivating the Ultimate Healthy Lifestyle. Simply striving each day to be a better person than you were the day before is all that is necessary.

Realize that the weaknesses and the things that need working on you notice in others are clues to what you need to work on. If it was not missing in you, you would not notice it in others.

The key to any relationship is to enjoy that which feeds both and allow each other the space for that which is not appreciated. It is up to each of us to determine if that which is not appreciated is worth continuing the relationship. If it is not, then going our separate ways, with love, is the way to go.

In our relatio0nship with self, we should expect only the best. Each and everyone of us is worthy of having and enjoying the best that life has to offer. This can be accomplished by playing the game with an open mind, an open heart, and the conviction that we are indeed Divine beings having a physical experience.

As Divine beings we have the poser to create whatever life we want for ourselves. We only have to have faith that this is so and to see and believe in our minds.

Let me know what you think by leaving a comment.

TODAY’S TIP: See in your mind the life you wish to live and believe it is yours. Be happy and love unconditionally.

What are your expectations?