Can expectations cause resentment?

“Uncertainty and expectation are the joys of life.” ~ William Congreve I mentioned on Monday that expectations for others can cause problems in our relations and our lives. Today, an article on that subject. Resentment and Expectations – Big Fat Life Hold Ups by Valery Satterwhite I work with a lot of people who are [...]

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Do you use people?

“Never wish life were easier, wish that you were better.” ~ Jim Rohn Our relationships with others often determine our success. There is a right way to use people. Here are some thoughts on that subject. Power through the people Have you come across a person who is so naturally friendly that when you put [...]

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Are you angry?

”I lose my temper, but it’s all over in a minute,” said the student. ”So is the hydrogen bomb,” I replied. ”But think of the damage it produces!” ~ George Sweeting Most of us feel anger at times. Most of us feel that it is no big deal because it only lasts for a minute, [...]

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Are fitness magazines worth it?

“Whenever I feel like exercise, I lie down until the feeling passes.” ~ Robert M. Hutchins With any subject, including fitness, there is always more to learn. A subscription to a fitness magazine may provide up to date information on the subject. Here are some thing to think about. Fitness Magazines: What’s with them? With [...]

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Are your relationships effective?

“Man is a knot into which relationships are tied.” ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry Maintaining positive relationships seems to be an art. Here are some suggestions on making your relationships work for you. Creating Effective and Efficient Relationships Relationships of all kinds are often perceived as very delicate things, that require extra effort to maintain. However, a [...]

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Are you a social butterfly?

“Talk to every woman as if you loved her, and to every man as if he bored you, and at the end of your first season you will have the reputation of possessing the most perfect social tact.” ~ Oscar Wilde Our interactions with others have a lot to do with how we feel about [...]

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Are you the Boss?

“You are the embodiment of the information you choose to accept and act upon. To change your circumstances you need to change your thinking and subsequent actions.” ~Adlin Sinclair Before you can boss anyone else it helps to be the boss of yourself. Here are some tips on taking control. “Who’s the Boss?” 10 ways [...]

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Are you a communicator?

“Courage is the discovery that you may not win, and trying when you know you can lose.” ~ Tom Krause Communications are very important in all areas of life. Here are some tips on empowering your communications. “A Piece of Blarney Stone” 10 ways to empower your communication The Blarney Stone is a historical stone, [...]

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